Hello, my name is Marcus Baumgardner, and this is my blog.
The goal of this blog is to chronicle the course of my training for a marathon, the ups and downs there will no undoubtedly be, the times I will want to give up, the apathy I will have to conquer and the pride I will feel in accomplishing something I set out to do. I have next to no experience running and I’m giving myself a year to train for it. The last time that I ran habitually was about a year and a half ago, which was rather short-lived because I had some bad shin splints. So right now I am starting from nothing… and am going to run a full marathon… In less than a year…
How did I get the idea to run a marathon?
On October 7th my girlfriend finished her first full marathon, however she in the months preceding her marathon she had no time to train because her schooling got in the way of it. She didn’t think she would make it but she wanted to try anyway. I didn’t get to see her off from the start but I did get to see her there when she finished, and that moment when she crossed the finish line, the culmination of all of the hard work she put into doing this, the long runs, the stressful days, the defeat of apathy when she didn’t really want to run, courage in the face of adversity, that was the most proud I have ever been of her. To me, her crossing that finish line, hearing her name called out as she did so, and getting a medal draped around her neck as she crossed, made all of the stress, hard work, agonizing pains and her struggles with all of her running injuries (and there were quite a few of them), not matter anymore, because she did it, even when she didn’t think she would.
That’s how I got that idea, seeing how everyone was so proud of her, how she was proud of herself, how she set a goal and accomplished it even when it seemed impossible, getting that medal as a token of her accomplishment, I wanted that. I wanted someone to be proud of me for the things I accomplished. Then I though to myself, “what have I accomplished?”. Well, nothing really. I graduated High School, but barely; not to say I wasn’t capable, I just wasn’t motivated. I played a couple of shows in a band. But that’s it. If I were to die tomorrow I would have nothing in my life that I am particularly proud of.
As I walked back to where I parked to get the car to pick up my girlfriend and her mother from the grounds, I was listening to the song ‘A Year As A Ghost’, by The Wonder Years off of the album Suburbia: I’ve Given You All And Now I’m Nothing, and I had a revelation. Dan Campbell wasn’t the only one to spend his life as a ghost, drifting by, not really doing anything that he found as significant, I have that same problem. I have spent my whole life as a ghost, drifting on from place to place, not making anything out of myself, and not caring about that I haven’t, giving up whenever things got tough, not trying to better myself, feeling sorry for myself and being all around depressed, and let me tell you… It’s no fun. I always though that I couldn’t do something because I was the one doing it, other people can, but I can’t. But then, as I was walking, listening to this song, I thought to myself, ‘Who the fuck am I to tell myself that I can’t do something?’ (specifically this marathon), and in that moment of pure, unadulterated truth, I realized that I can do whatever I want to with my life, and if you think I can’t then I don’t need you in my life. I also realized you’re only sad and depressed until you decide to make a change in your life. Albert Einstein once defined insanity as ‘doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results’, so if I were to keep on feeling sorry for myself and doing nothing to change that, I shouldn’t expect myself to one day become happy. With that revelation I came to the conclusion that I would start training for the marathon.
I plan on running through this whole winter, taking it a mile or two at a time, just to get myself into the feel for running, and hopefully the bitter cold air will give my lungs some strength, and build up my cardio a little faster, and then whence spring hits, that’s when the real fun begins, that’s when I go all out, that’s when I will really learn how to push myself, that’s when I will find my limits and give them the finger as I pass them by, that’s when I will show myself who I really am and what I can really be. Everyone has the capacity for greatness, you just have to push yourself toward it. You can only feel sorry for yourself for so long before you do something about, and I certainly intend to.
Today marks the start of my training, and the start of my story of greatness. To those of you who took the time out of your busy lives to read this I bid thanks to you, and I hope you keep reading, as I’m sure you will hope I keep running.
Thanks
-Marcus.